Sometimes when we go through a relationship, we tend to not look past the outside shell. We get so caught up into it that we believe that this person we’re talking to is genuine. But sadly, people tend to lie about themselves just so they are able to step into your boundaries. To them lying is like a regular thing, they think that it’s okay but they don’t know how devastating it can affect the other person. That’s how the majority of people get hurt because we rush through it too blindly without laying out the facts. Take it slow, think smart, and fall in love  with a secure but open heart.

I think it’s kind of funny the way society works. If you don’t get judged for one thing, its another. People will always find something to judge you on, finding the smallest and most minor detail and base your value on that. We even do this ourselves sometimes. It’s just in human nature to characterize people, for the better or for worse. What really matters is despite what you’re being labeled as, will you let this faze you or will you trust and acknowledge your self worth. 

Finally no school tomorrow! Started a little late but hey better than nothing

The last thing you ever want to do is to lead a person on. If you don’t feel the same way they feel about you, let them know. It’s tough, really tough actually to tell the other you don’t have feelings for them but it’s better to lay it all out; or you’ll be keeping their hopes up. Especially don’t play around with their feelings, don’t go over the boundaries that will lead them to believe there’s something between you two. All of the sudden when you reveal to them that you don’t feel the same way back. That feeling you’re giving them, that feeling we’re feeling, is incomparable. It feels as though we’ve been tricked and lead on to something which never even existed; we felt like we had a chance. Intentionally or unintentionally, the last thing you ever want to do, is give false hope to a person.

As of today, I have paid my penance and am grounded no more! Wooo I can text again [:

Fuck it’s Monday…